Wife's taking the kids to her parents so I have the whole house to myself. Sounds stupid but I'm planning to just chill, maybe watch a movie, go for a walk, not think about anything stressful. Been running on empty for weeks and realized I need to actually do something about it instead of just grinding through. Looking forward to it more than I should probably admit.
Not stupid at all. This is legit self-care and you need it. I try to do something similar once a month and it makes a huge difference in how present I can be the rest of the time.
Enjoy every second of it. Seriously. Maybe sleep until noon, make a big breakfast without anyone asking for cereal instead, or just sit in silence. It's not stupid at all.
Don't apologize for this man. Taking a day for yourself isn't stupid, it's necessary. I learned that the hard way. Do something that actually recharges you - doesn't matter what it is.
Don't apologize for taking time for yourself man. I've got four kids and I'm telling you, those solo hours are what keep you sane. What's your plan? Just lounging or actually doing something?
This is so real. I'm doing something similar next month and I'm already counting down the days. My wife gets it though which makes it easier. You deserve the peace and quiet.
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This is awesome. Honestly the best thing I did for my mental health was stop feeling guilty about needing a break. Your family needs you at your best, and you can't be that running on empty.