The loneliness is getting to me

1w ago·1 min read

I know I should reach out to friends but I just feel like nobody really gets it. They're all doing their thing with their families and I'm just here. Even when I'm around people I feel completely alone. Don't know how to explain that to anyone without sounding pathetic. Anyone else feel this way?

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MMichaelRegular1w ago

Start small. Text one friend just to check in or ask if they want to grab coffee. You'd be surprised how many people are in the same boat and just waiting for someone to reach out first.

RRobertRegular1w ago

This is real and I appreciate you saying it out loud. There's something about this stage of parenting that isolates you even when you're surrounded by people. Consider talking to someone professionally too if it gets heavier.

MMike R.Regular1w ago

I get this feeling more than I'd like to admit. Even though logically I know my friends would listen, sometimes it just feels easier to stay quiet. But reaching out is worth it. These dad forums help too honestly.

NNolan D.Regular1w ago

That loneliness hits different when you're a dad because everyone's so focused on their own family stuff. But you're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of us are struggling with the same thing.