Therapy has been a game changer for me
Started seeing a therapist 6 months ago to work through some stuff from my past that I realized was affecting how I parent. It's been rough confronting some hard things but man it's helped. I'm more patient with my kids, less reactive, and I actually understand why I get so angry sometimes. My therapist recommended this parenting book too that's been helpful. It's not cheap and some days it feels pointless but it's one of the best investments I've made.
Therapy is legit. I was skeptical at first too but working through old stuff actually makes you a better dad because you're not passing the same baggage down. Good for you for putting in the work.