VENT: Can we talk about how nobody asks if dads are okay?

My daughter had a rough school year, lots of concerns about her social anxiety, and everyone was checking in on her constantly. Rightfully so. But nobody once asked how I was handling it. Because apparently I'm just the support system, not someone who also needs support? I was stressed, worried, had been reading all these parenting books at 2 AM, felt like I was failing her. But sure, I'm fine, I'm the dad. Ugh. Sorry for the rant but this has been bugging me.