12 months in - the things that actually matter

My son turned 1 yesterday and I've been reflecting on the year. All the stuff I stressed about (perfect swaddle technique, keeping him on "schedule," buying the most expensive gear) didn't matter nearly as much as I thought.

What actually mattered:

• My wife and I communicating when we're burnt out
• Being patient when he wouldn't sleep at 3am
• Learning his specific cries and needs
• Just being present sometimes without trying to optimize everything
• Taking videos (seriously, watch them)
• Asking for help when I needed it

Year 2 feels less terrifying now that I know he's not made of glass. Shoutout to whoever recommended the "Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Child" book on here a few months back - that actually helped.