Anyone else feel like they're failing at the bonding thing?

This might get me roasted but I don't feel that overwhelming connection everyone talks about. Our daughter is 2 months old and honestly most of the time I just feel anxious and tired. I love her, I know I do, but it's not this magical instant bond. I'm waiting for it to click but it hasn't yet. The mom groups all talk about how being a parent is the most amazing thing ever and I'm just... surviving. Anyone else been here?