Wife had to stop breastfeeding due to medication and we switched to formula. Part of me is relieved because now I can actually help with night feedings but I also feel like I'm missing out on that bonding thing everyone talks about. Anyone got advice on connecting with the baby during bottle time? Or am I overthinking this?
Dude, formula feeding is totally legit bonding. You get to do the feedings, you see that little face looking up at you, it's real connection. Don't let anyone make you feel weird about being relieved. My kid thrived on formula and I got some of my best one-on-one time during feeds.
Your wife having to stop breastfeeding had to be tough for her though, right? But honestly the silver lining is you're actually in the trenches with feeding. You're building that bond just as much. Lean into it.
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Formula is legit. My kids grew strong and healthy on it. The bonding thing is all about showing up and being present during feeding, not what the milk source is. You're already doing it right by being in this conversation.