Bottle feeding vs breast feeding debate at my house

Jun 111 min read

My wife wanted to breastfeed but after 2 weeks she's really struggling with it. Cracked nipples, pain, the whole thing. Her doctor said we could try pumping and bottle feeding instead which would take some pressure off. But now she feels guilty about not directly breastfeeding. I keep telling her fed is best and either way our baby gets milk but she's really in her head about it. Anyone else deal with this? I want to support her decision but also want to help her see that she's doing great either way.

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MMark R.New DadJun 13

Your wife's comfort and mental health comes first. Some moms thrive with breastfeeding, some don't, and that's completely okay. We combo fed with our second and it was the right call for us. Whatever decision you two make together is the right one for your family.

MMatt B.RegularJun 11

Cracked nipples after 2 weeks sounds painful. This might be worth a call to the pediatrician or a lactation specialist because that's not something she just has to push through. There are actual solutions - better latch techniques, shields, creams. You supporting her exploring options without pressure is what matters most right now.

AAndrew T.New DadJun 12

That's a really tough spot she's in. Two weeks in is still early and the pain she's describing is real and valid. Have you guys looked into seeing a lactation consultant? Our wife had similar issues and a consultant made all the difference. No shame in switching to bottles either if that's what works better for her mental health.