Breastfeeding struggles - when do we switch to formula?

JoshNew Dad

1w ago·1 min read

First time parent here. Baby is 2 weeks old and my wife is having a really hard time with breastfeeding. Her nipples are cracked and bleeding and she's in a lot of pain. We've tried different positions, got a lactation consultant, all that stuff. Baby seems hungry constantly. I feel helpless just watching her suffer. Is it too early to consider formula or should we keep pushing through this? What does everyone else do?

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Comments(6)

MMitch R.Regular1w ago

Cracked nipples at 2 weeks sounds really painful for your wife. Have you guys talked to a lactation consultant yet? They helped us figure out positioning and gave us tips that actually worked.

EEricNew Dad1w ago

This was us two weeks ago too, man. Bleeding nipples are no joke. We got some lanolin cream and a nipple shield from the lactation consultant and it made a huge difference. Hang in there.

KKyle M.Regular1w ago

Two weeks is peak struggle time but it does get easier if she sticks with it. That said, fed is best. If formula is what makes your wife's life manageable and your baby healthy then that's the right call.

NNathanRegular1w ago

Combination feeding saved us with our first. Some breast some formula and nobody had to be miserable. There's no shame in that game and honestly lots of families do it.

JJustinNew Dad1w ago

Your wife is dealing with a lot right now. Whether it's breastfeeding or formula doesn't matter, what matters is that the baby is fed and your wife isn't suffering. Give her grace on this decision.

KKyleRegular6d ago

Two weeks in and struggling is totally normal. Breastfeeding is hard on her body and emotionally. Talk to a lactation consultant if you haven't already, they can actually help a ton. Formula is fine too if she needs a break.