We're doing formula because breastfeeding didn't work out. He's almost 3 weeks old and the schedule is all over the place. Sometimes he wants to eat every 2 hours, sometimes 4. I've read so many different feeding guides and they all say something different. Should I be trying to get him on a schedule or just feeding on demand? What worked for you guys?
Those early weeks are rough because every baby is different. Some want to eat every two hours, some every four. The feeding schedule will become more obvious as you go. You've got this.
At 3 weeks with formula you're probably looking at feeding every 3-4 hours. We went that route and honestly the routine became our friend after a few weeks. Just track it for a bit and you'll find his natural rhythm.
Formula feeding actually helped me bond more because I could do the feedings and give my wife a break. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. Your kid is getting fed, that's what matters.
Congrats on almost making it through the third week! Feeding schedules are super individual so don't stress too much if your baby doesn't follow textbook timing. What signals are you watching for to know when he's genuinely hungry?
We struggled with breastfeeding too so I totally get it. Formula worked great for us. The schedule will stabilize soon - 3 weeks in things are still pretty chaotic. You're doing fine.
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Formula is the right call if that's what works for your family. Three weeks in you're probably still figuring out what your baby actually needs. Do you have a pediatrician you can check in with if something feels off?