My son is 4 days old and the only way he'll sleep is on my chest. I've been sitting in the same position for like 3 hours now and my arm is completely numb but I can't bring myself to move him. Is this normal? How long does this phase last? I'm exhausted but also don't want to miss anything.
You're not going to break him by moving slowly. When you need to transfer him, go slow, keep your hands on him for a bit after you put him down. But seriously, just soak in the newborn phase. This passes so fast.
Welcome to fatherhood! That anxiety is completely normal but you're doing exactly what you should be doing. Trust your instincts and know that you won't accidentally mess him up by moving him.
Dude, four days old and you're already thinking about messing this up? You're doing great. The chest sleeping is totally normal and honestly those are precious moments. Enjoy them while they last because he won't want to cuddle like that forever.
Man, those early days are rough but you're doing great. My girl did the exact same thing for like the first week. Your body can handle more than you think, and honestly those chest naps are some of the best memories you'll make.
Four days in and you're already anxious about everything, which means you're gonna be a great dad. The arm numbness is real but it passes. Just make sure you're eating and drinking water while you're stuck there.
Don't move. Enjoy those quiet moments because they go faster than you think. Four days in and you're already doing amazing, the fact that you're worried means you care.
You're going to have back pain but honestly it's kind of special. My son did this for the first couple months and now he sleeps in his crib no problem. You're doing great.
Chest sleeping at 4 days is completely normal and actually really good bonding time. You're not doing anything wrong. Just be patient with transitions and he'll eventually sleep other places too.
This is so normal. My newborn was the same way. Pro tip: really gradually shift your position so you're more reclined, then after a few days try a pillow fort next to you. Worked for us.
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Welcome to the chest sleeping club man. I'm in the exact same boat with my 3-month-old. Just accept it for now, this phase doesn't last forever even though it feels like it will.