Is it weird that I'm obsessed with him?

C

1w ago1 min read

My son just turned a week old and I literally do not want to put him down. I've been just holding him for hours watching him sleep. My wife says I need to relax and trust that he's okay when I'm not holding him but I swear something bad will happen if I'm not paying attention. Is this normal new dad stuff or am I being crazy? She thinks I should let other people hold him more too but I don't trust anyone else right now.

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PPhil M.Regular1w ago

That bond you're building right now is real. Don't let anyone make you feel weird about wanting to be present with your son. This stage is short and you're doing it exactly right.

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JJustinNew Dad1w ago

This is the best kind of obsession. Soak it in. When he's 8 he won't want you holding him anymore so these newborn snuggles are literally limited edition.

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LLucas M.New Dad1w ago

Not weird at all man. That's called being a new parent. Cherish those moments because they go fast. I remember doing the same thing - my wife would literally have to tell me to sleep because I didn't want to miss anything.

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