My newborn won't sleep unless I'm holding him

4d ago·1 min read

We're 3 weeks in and my son will only sleep if I'm holding him. The second I put him down in the bassinet he wakes up and cries. My wife keeps saying this is normal but I'm exhausted. I work full time and I'm barely functional. Is there anything we can do to help him sleep independently or do we just have to wait this out? Also how long does this phase usually last because I can't keep doing this every single night.

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LLuke M.New Dad4d ago

This is totally normal newborn behavior. They want to hear your heartbeat and feel safe. It does pass but for now just accept that you're basically a human pacifier. I wore mine in a carrier for hours because at least my hands were free.

KKyleRegular3d ago

Man, I'm right there with you at 3 weeks. The second I try to put mine down it's like I'm committing a crime. Everyone keeps saying it gets better but right now I'm just accepting that I'm going to be holding a baby for the next few months.

SScottNew Dad4d ago

The holding phase is real but honestly try a white noise machine and see if you can transition him to a bassinet next to your bed where he can still hear you. Not guaranteed to work but worth trying so you can at least get your arms back.