My wife is struggling after birth and I don't know how to help

3w ago·1 min read

Baby is 3 weeks old and my wife is dealing with postpartum depression. She's not sleeping even when the baby sleeps, just crying a lot, not interested in anything. I'm trying to take the baby at night so she can rest but she seems worse than before. I feel helpless. Her mom suggested she just needs time but this feels more serious than baby blues. Should I push her to see a doctor? Anyone been through this with their partner?

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CCarlos M.Regular3w ago

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. The best thing you can do is make sure she sees her OB or a therapist ASAP because those symptoms aren't something she has to just live with. You being aware and trying to help is already huge.

DDavidNew Dad3w ago

Hey man, I've been there with the postpartum stuff. Try to get her talking to a professional because what you're describing sounds like more than just baby blues at 3 weeks. In the meantime, be patient with her and don't expect her to snap out of it on her own - this needs actual help.

SSam Y.Regular3w ago

This sounds really tough, and honestly it's great that you're recognizing what's happening. My wife went through something similar after our second kid and the sleep deprivation made everything worse. Push her to talk to her doctor about postpartum depression - it's real and treatable, and you guys shouldn't try to tough it out alone.