Been back at the office for 3 days after my 2 weeks off and I feel absolutely miserable. Miss seeing my daughter during the day. My wife is managing but I hate that I'm not there to help with the tough moments. The office feels so pointless right now. Anyone else struggle with this? Does it get easier or is this just how it's going to be?
2 weeks goes by way too fast. The guilt is real but you're doing the right thing providing for your family. Hang in there.
This is exactly why I'm terrified to go back after my remote work setup. Three days in and you're already miserable? That's tough man. Can you at least do some work from home some days?
The first week back is the hardest. Your brain is still in baby mode and suddenly you're in meetings. Give it a month and you'll find your rhythm. The guilt doesn't fully go away but you learn to manage it.
Two weeks is rough. I had 4 weeks and even that didn't feel like enough. The guilt is real but it does get easier. Now at 3 months I've found a rhythm and honestly the balance helps me be a better dad when I am home.
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Those first weeks back are brutal, man. I felt the same way after my 2 weeks ended. It does get easier once you settle into a routine, but it's totally normal to miss her during the day.