Pumping logistics are insane

My wife is exclusively pumping because feeding never clicked for us (no judgment intended but we just couldn't get there) and holy shit the time commitment. She's pumping 8 times a day, that's 8 times of setting up, cleaning, storing, tracking supply. It's taking over our lives. Meanwhile I feel useless even though I'm bottle feeding and changing diapers, because she's still got this whole extra job nobody sees. Anyone else dealing with exclusive pumping? Does it eventually get better or is this the new normal?