When did you feel like an actual dad?

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2w ago1 min read

Just got back from the pediatrician with my newborn and I realized I've got a whole notebook of questions written down, I know what percentile she's in, and I actually understand what they mean by wet diapers as a feeding indicator. When did this happen? A month ago I didn't even know how to properly support her head. Feeling kind of proud right now not gonna lie.

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DDerekRegular2w ago

The notebook thing is great but honestly it gets easier. My kids are 4 months and almost 2 now and I still write stuff down but I've learned the pediatrician has heard it all before. You're doing it right though, asking questions beats guessing.

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BBrandonRegular2w ago

For me it was probably around week 3 when I stopped being terrified I'd break them just by holding them wrong. The fact that you're even thinking about this means you're already nailing it.

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BBrandonRegular2w ago

Man, I remember that feeling exactly. For me it was when my son got sick at like 3am and I was the one who just knew what to do without panicking. No manual required, just instinct. You're already there though if you're taking notes at the pediatrician - that's peak dad energy right there.

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