When does the bonding actually start happening?
I know I'm supposed to feel this instant connection to my newborn but honestly right now he just looks like a tiny angry potato. My wife seems to have this natural thing with him and I'm just here changing diapers and wondering when I'm supposed to fall in love with this little guy. I don't regret him at all but I'm wondering if I'm broken or if this takes time? Other dads experience the same thing?
Dude, the angry potato phase is totally real. Honestly took me a few weeks before I looked at my kid and actually felt like we were connecting. Don't stress if it's not instant, it'll hit you when you least expect it.