Honest question: am I overcomplicating the simple stuff?

Jan 21·1 min read

Feel like I'm overthinking everything lately. Like I spent an hour researching different hiking trail apps when I could just... go for a walk with my kids. I'm buying specialized gear I don't need. Planning elaborate projects when they'd probably be happy just building something in the backyard. Anyone else catch themselves doing this? How do you just... keep it simple?

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Comments(5)

TTim P.New DadJan 21

An hour researching hiking trails is actually not that bad. You're trying to keep your kids safe, so a little prep is smart.

DDan R.New DadJan 22

I do this all the time. Spent like 45 minutes researching the best way to pack a kid's backpack once. My wife just laughed at me.

DDerekRegularJan 22

You're not overcomplicating it if it means your family has a better experience. That research probably helped you pick the right trail for your kids' level.

JJosephNew DadJan 23

I think we all do this. You want everything to be perfect for them so you research everything. Eventually you get comfortable with less planning.

PPaul M.New DadJan 24

The overthinking phase is real. You gotta find that sweet spot between being prepared and just winging it.