Career ambitions vs being present

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WesNew Dad

6d ago1 min read

Got offered a promotion at work which would mean more travel and longer hours. Part of me is excited about the next step in my career but the other part keeps thinking about missing my kids growing up. My oldest is only 7. Is anyone else struggling with this? Did you take the leap or stay put? I feel like I'm supposed to want to climb the ladder but I'm not sure that's what I actually want anymore.

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BBrandonRegular4d ago

Man I get the pull of career advancement, I really do. But I've learned the hard way that being present matters more than the title. Your kids won't remember how much money you made.

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AAntonioRegular5d ago

I turned down a similar offer two years ago and honestly I don't regret it. The money would've been nice but missing dinners and bedtimes adds up fast. Only you know if it's worth it though. What does your gut tell you?

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MMarco R.Regular5d ago

This is the exact position I'm in right now with my three kids. The promotion sounds great until you realize you're missing the actual moments. Have you asked what the travel schedule would really look like? Sometimes it's not as bad as you think.

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