Career stalled since becoming a dad and I'm bitter about it
I used to travel for work constantly and was on the partner track at my firm. Now that I have two kids I can't do the nights away anymore and I feel like I'm being passed over for promotions. My coworkers without kids are getting the big projects. I love being a dad but it sucks feeling like I have to choose. Anyone found a way to balance ambition with actually being present for your family?
I hear you. Two kids changed my whole trajectory at work but honestly I don't regret the choice. That said the financial hit and career reset is real. Have you considered looking for a new firm that's more family-friendly?