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Finally got approved for 2 weeks paternity leave and I'm terrified

Apr 22·1 min read

Been at my company for 5 years and they finally approved my request. Baby number 2 is due in 6 weeks. Part of me is excited to actually be there for the first two weeks but honestly I'm freaking out about what's piling up at work. My boss keeps saying "we'll figure it out" but I know that really means I'll be answering emails at 2am while my wife is trying to sleep. Anyone else dealt with this? How do you actually disconnect?

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JJosh M.RegularApr 24

Congrats on getting approved, that's huge! The terrified feeling is totally normal. I was the same before my second - kept thinking about all the work stuff that would pile up. But honestly those two weeks go fast and you won't regret being there. The work will be there when you get back.

RRyanRegularApr 24

Two weeks is a game changer with the second kid. You're gonna want that time. First time around I was impatient to get back but baby two showed me how much I actually needed to be home. Don't stress about work - your company will survive.

MMarcusNew DadApr 24

The terror is real but honestly you're gonna be so glad you have those weeks when the baby comes. All the little moments matter way more than you think they will. Just try to be present and not think too hard about what's happening at the office.