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Finally got approved for 3 months paternity leave and I'm terrified

3w ago·1 min read

So the company approved my request and I start in 2 weeks. Should be excited right? But honestly I'm freaking out. My boss made it clear that a junior dev is taking my projects and I'm worried they'll realize they don't need me. Plus I've been the provider for so long that being home full time with the baby feels weird. Anyone else gone through this? How do you stop your brain from spiraling about job security when you're trying to bond with your kid?

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PPatrick M.New Dad3w ago

3 months is amazing and honestly the scared feeling means you care. You're going to do great. Just surrender to the chaos of it instead of trying to control it.

BBrandonRegular2w ago

That terror is actually a good sign. It means you're thinking seriously about what parenting requires. You'll figure it out.

PPhil M.Regular3w ago

The terrified feeling is totally normal. I was in your shoes waiting for my leave to start. But once you're in it and bonding with your kid those early fears disappear fast.

BBrian K.New Dad3w ago

3 months is incredible. I had 8 weeks and I'd trade anything to go back and do it again. You're going to look back on this time as one of the best periods of your life.