Finally took paternity leave and it's weird being home

C

Apr 291 min read

So I'm on week 2 of my 4 week paternity leave and honestly it's throwing me off. I keep checking my work email out of habit even though my boss told me to stay off it. The baby is finally sleeping somewhat regularly and my wife is recovering well but I feel guilty sitting down to just be present instead of "doing something productive." Anyone else struggle with this mental shift? I know logically I should enjoy this time but my brain keeps asking why I'm not in meetings right now.

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GGary R.RegularApr 29

Don't fight it man, just put the phone down. I know it's habit but you've earned this time to be present. Your work will be there in 2 more weeks, your baby won't stay this small.

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DDannyRegularApr 29

That email checking habit is tough to break. Try to use this time to actually disconnect and be with your kid. You won't regret the time off, but you might regret not being fully there.

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