How do you stop feeling guilty about working?

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2w ago1 min read

I provide for my family, I'm there most evenings and weekends, but I still feel like I'm failing because I'm not there for every moment. My wife says I'm being ridiculous but the mom guilt I see her describe sometimes, I feel a version of that. Like I should be making more money OR spending more time with them OR advancing my career faster. Something's gotta give and I can't figure out what. Anyone else dealing with this constant low level anxiety?

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TTyler M.New Dad2w ago

The quality of the time you're there matters way more than being there for every single moment. Your kids remember the times you're actually present and engaged, not the ones you missed.

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RRyanRegular2w ago

Your wife is right. You're showing up most evenings and weekends, that's not failing. The guilt is the lie we tell ourselves. You're doing enough.

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DDale J.Regular2w ago

That guilt will eat you alive if you let it. You're providing, you're showing up consistently, you're being a real dad. That's what counts.

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