Hybrid schedule isn't hybrid, it's a scam

My company "requires" 3 days in office. But my boss text me at 7am on my work-from-home days asking about project updates, and there's always some meeting that "really needs you here" on my off days. So I'm commuting 4-5 days anyway while losing childcare flexibility. Other dads at the company just accept it. I'm thinking about calling it out but scared it'll tank my performance review. Anyone else dealing with this fake hybrid BS?