Just got back from paternity leave and it feels weird

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JoeRegular

1w ago1 min read

Took 8 weeks when our second was born. Those 8 weeks were incredible - got to know my newborn, helped my wife recover, really bonded with my toddler during the day. Now I'm back at work and I feel like I'm missing everything. My 2 year old cries when I leave in the morning. Is this normal? Does it get easier or are you just always feeling guilty that you're not there?

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DDanny G.Regular1w ago

Totally get that feeling. I went back after my second and missed those days, but honestly coaching little league and family time on weekends helps fill that void. You'll find your rhythm again.

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JJosephNew Dad1w ago

Eight weeks is solid time to bond with both kids. The key is those little moments count just as much now - even if they're shorter, they matter more when you're present.

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PPhilRegular1w ago

That transition back is real, man. I felt it too after my second was born. The good news is those eight weeks don't go away, and you'll find ways to keep that connection going even with work ramping back up.

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