Just got laid off and honestly kind of relieved

JoeRegular

2w ago·1 min read

That's terrible to say right? I have two kids and a mortgage but the job was destroying me. 60+ hour weeks, constant stress, and I was becoming someone my kids didn't recognize. I've got about 4 months of savings and I'm actually considering trying freelance work so I can have more flexibility. My wife thinks I'm crazy but she also knows how miserable I've been. Has anyone made a big career change to get their life back?

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Comments(6)

MMarcusNew Dad2w ago

Not terrible to say at all man. Burnout is real and your kids need their dad present and sane more than they need the extra paycheck. You're making the right call prioritizing your sanity.

KKevinNew Dad2w ago

Honestly that relief you're feeling is telling you something important. Use this time to reset and find work that doesn't destroy you. Your kids will be better off with a dad who's present.

MMichael P.Regular2w ago

I get it completely. 60 hour weeks wreck you mentally and physically. Take some time to breathe and figure out your next move. Your family needs you whole, not just working.

KKyleNew Dad2w ago

Not terrible at all man. Mental health matters and burnout is real. Have you had a chance to think about what's next or are you taking some time first?

RRicardo M.New Dad2w ago

That's not terrible at all. Your kids need their dad present more than they need the paycheck from a job that's killing you. You'll figure out the money part.

AAdam K.New Dad2w ago

60+ hours is brutal and honestly not sustainable when you've got kids depending on you. Sometimes the best move for your family is the one that seems scary financially.