Just got promoted and it might ruin everything

1w ago·1 min read

Got offered a senior manager role with a significant raise. Problem is it's going to require a lot more hours, probably 60+ week territory. My kids are 4 and 7. I've been pretty present so far and they know my schedule. The money would be great for college savings and security. But I feel like I'd miss their whole childhood. My wife says it's my call but I can tell she's worried. This shouldn't be this hard of a decision. Any of you guys take on demanding roles? How do you manage it?

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KKevin M.New Dad1w ago

Congrats on the offer but yeah that's a tough call. I turned down a promotion a couple years ago specifically because I knew the hours would kill my ability to be present with the kids. Money's not worth it if you're missing their whole childhood.

MMike C.Regular1w ago

Have you tried negotiating the terms? Like maybe you could do the senior role with some flexibility or remote days? Don't just accept the default setup they're offering. Your family situation is worth bringing up.

PPedroRegular1w ago

This is the million dollar question isn't it. Before you say yes, really drill down on what those hours actually look like. Some senior roles are brutal, others are manageable. Talk to people actually in that position at your company.