Just realized I haven't taken a real vacation in 3 years

Jan 10·1 min read

Had a wake-up call recently. My buddy mentioned planning a week away with his family in August and I realized I literally can't remember the last time we took more than a long weekend. Between work demands and the constant guilt about taking time off, I just... haven't.

Booked a week at the beach in June. Not even a fancy place, just an Airbnb. Trying to figure out how to actually disconnect while I'm there though—any tips? My boss will definitely try to reach out.

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Comments(5)

SSam K.New DadJan 11

Your buddy is right to plan ahead. We waited too long and now everything good is booked for summer. Even just a long weekend does wonders. You don't need to go far, just somewhere different.

TTyler M.New DadJan 11

Same. I had to literally put it in my calendar to guilt myself into booking something. Found a decent Airbnb for July and honestly just having the dates locked in has made me feel less fried.

HHector R.RegularJan 12

Wake up calls hit different when they come from someone living their life normally. Take the hint and book something. Even a camping trip counts.

VVince R.RegularJan 12

3 years is rough man. I was at 4 and finally snapped when my boss asked what I did over my last day off and I couldn't even remember. Took a week with just my family to a beach house and felt human again.

JJoel F.RegularJan 11

Do it. Seriously. I kept saying 'maybe next year' and next year never comes until it does and you've missed half a decade. August is perfect timing to start looking now.

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