Just started paternity leave and feeling guilty about being happy

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2w ago1 min read

I have 8 weeks off and I should be exhausted but honestly it's amazing to just be here. Newborn screaming at 3am doesn't even bother me because it's my kid and I'm not stressed about emails. My coworkers keep texting me about work stuff and I'm just ignoring it all. Is it wrong that I kind of hope something happens so they realize they don't need me as much as they think? Probably should log off for real.

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DDerekNew Dad2w ago

The fact that you're aware of the guilt and naming it is actually a sign you're doing great. Being present and happy about it? That's exactly what your newborn needs from you.

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DDerekRegular2w ago

This is such a healthy perspective. So many dads feel like they have to apologize for actually enjoying their kids. You're doing it right.

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TTomNew Dad2w ago

Don't feel guilty at all man. Those 8 weeks are precious and you're exactly where you need to be. I remember feeling the same way and honestly looking back, that time with my newborn was irreplaceable. Soak it in.

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