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Just took 2 weeks paternity leave and going back Monday - not ready

Apr 22·1 min read

Honestly guys, these two weeks have been the best and worst of my life. Seeing my newborn every single day, being there when he opens his eyes, helping my wife recover. Now I gotta go back to the office Monday and I'm genuinely dreading it. How do you guys cope with this? I feel like I'm abandoning my family already and I haven't even walked through the door yet.

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Comments(4)

MMason T.New DadApr 22

That's the hardest part of being a dad. Going back to work after that much time home is brutal. Try to set up some FaceTime calls on your lunch breaks if you can. It helps knowing you'll see them soon.

DDerekNew DadApr 22

You've got this. The first week back is the worst, but you'll find a rhythm. And the good news is you know what you're missing now, so you'll make the most of your actual time with the little guy.

MMitchell R.RegularApr 22

I remember that feeling man. Those first two weeks are incredible and terrifying at the same time. When do you go back? Hopefully the routine will feel good once you get into it, but yeah that first day is rough.

EEricRegularApr 23

This hits different when you've got a newborn. I went back after 10 days and it was one of the hardest days of my life. But it does get easier, I promise. The time you do have becomes more intentional.