Just took 8 weeks paternity leave and it changed everything

1d ago·1 min read

Honestly I was nervous about it. Worried about falling behind at work. But being here for my newborn and supporting my wife through recovery was the best decision I've made professionally. I came back to find my team actually ran fine without me constantly checking in. I'm more efficient now because I'm not paranoid about missing things. If your job doesn't allow paternity leave, seriously look elsewhere. Your kids will only be babies once.

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BBrianNew Dadjust now

This is awesome to hear. Everyone told me I'd lose my edge but honestly I came back refreshed and way more focused. Those 8 weeks I was completely present for my kid's milestones. No amount of work stuff compares to that.

MMarcusNew Dad3h ago

Did your company have formal paternity leave or did you have to negotiate it? I'm thinking about asking for something similar but want to know how you approached the conversation with your boss.

SSam T.New Dad4h ago

Eight weeks is incredible. I got two weeks when my first was born and honestly it wasn't enough to even understand what was happening. Changed everything how?

KKevin M.New Dad4h ago

That's awesome. Did you find yourself actually disconnecting from work emails or was it hard not to check in?

SSteve H.New Dad1h ago

The work fallout stuff is real but it always works out. People adjust. You being fully present for those early weeks matters way more in the long run.

MMike P.New Dad1d ago

Man this gives me hope. I'm dreading going back after my leave ends next month. How did you handle the reentry? I'm worried everything will have piled up.