6 weeks off with my newborn was incredible. Got to be there for everything. Now I'm 2 weeks away from going back and I'm kind of freaking out. Not ready to hand her off to daycare. Also worried that I'll have fallen behind at work and people will think I'm not serious about my job anymore. Anyone been through this? How bad is the reentry usually?
Those 6 weeks are special no question. Coming back is tough but you've got the memories and the bond is already there. Take it one day at a time.
That first day back is going to be rough but you've already proven you can handle both. Just remember those 6 weeks when work gets crazy. You got this.
That anxiety is normal. Just know that going back to work doesn't erase what you built during those weeks. Your son will remember having dad home more than he'll remember which specific days you were there.
That's a tough spot man. The good news is companies that give real paternity leave usually get that you've changed as a person. I'd just be honest with your manager about wanting flexible arrangements if possible.
Everyone feels this. The good news is you'll get into a rhythm faster than you think. The hard part is remembering not to judge yourself for missing some stuff.
Six weeks is amazing and you should be proud of that. The anxiety is totally normal but most dads find their rhythm when they get back. Just don't try to be a superhero your first week back.
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I'm still struggling with this 4 months back in. The guilt hit harder than I expected. But I realized my kids are proud of what I do for them. That helped a bit with the transition.