Missed another school play because of work emergency

Apr 7·1 min read

This is the third one this year. My daughter was the tree in the school play and I told her I'd be there. Got a call at 2pm that day about a production issue and by the time I could leave it was almost over. She didn't say much but I could see it in her face. My boss said it was critical and maybe it was, but I can't help feeling like I'm getting the balance all wrong. How do guys manage this without feeling like complete failures?

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RRob H.RegularApr 8

Man this one stings. Three school plays missed in one year means something's gotta give. I know work emergencies are real but kids remember who showed up. That tree costume is only going to happen once.

AAlexRegularApr 8

This is tough because I get it, work is serious. But I also coached my son's entire team through a season while working full time. There's usually a way if you make it a priority. Maybe talk to your boss about blocking off school event days.

BBrianRegularApr 8

Third time this year is a pattern she's starting to notice. Kids are forgiving but only so much. Whatever work thing came up, maybe find a way to handle it differently next time so you can be there.

MMike R.RegularApr 8

I'd be looking at whether I could delegate that emergency or handle it remotely. These are the moments they talk about in 20 years, and not in a good way. Your daughter being the tree is special and she wanted you there.