New app that's actually helping with the chaos
Not sponsored or anything, but been using Togetherly with my wife to just... coordinate everything. Dinners, pickups, doctor appointments, work deadlines, who's cooking, who has bandwidth for bedtime. Sounds stupid but having ONE place where we're not constantly asking "wait, who's getting Sofia on Thursday?" has genuinely reduced stress. $8/month or whatever. Worth it if you're also just drowning in logistics.
We tried this and honestly the biggest win was just knowing what my wife had on her plate before I asked her to do something else. The app was secondary to that awareness.