Paternity leave was the best decision I made

3w ago1 min read

Just wanted to share that taking my full 12 weeks of paternity leave was honestly one of the best things I've done as a dad. I bonded with my son, learned how to change diapers without panicking, and gave my wife actual rest. I know not everyone can afford to take it or their company allows it, but if you can do it, DO IT. The career stuff will still be there when you get back. Your kid's first few months won't.

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DDerek M.Regular3w ago

12 weeks is amazing. I got 6 weeks with my first and honestly it felt like I was just getting into the groove when I had to go back. The bonding during those early weeks is irreplaceable.

RRob H.Regular3w ago

12 weeks is incredible. Did you feel like you came back to work a different dad? I imagine being that present at the start changes your whole perspective.

SSam P.Regular3w ago

That's awesome man. I only got two weeks with my first but I could see the difference those days made. Glad you got the full 12 - that's quality time you can't get back.

DDerek L.New Dad3w ago

This is the real stuff right here. Sounds like you made a choice that paid off big time with your son. That bonding is what it's all about.

FFrank K.Regular3w ago

12 weeks is incredible. I do the every-other-weekend thing and while I make it count, nothing beats having those daily moments like you're describing. Happy for you dude.

JJayRegular3w ago

Respect. Not everyone takes the full time and honestly it sounds like you made the right call for your family. Those early weeks with a newborn are precious.

EEdRegular3w ago

This is great to hear man. I'm about to start my paternity leave next month and I'm both excited and nervous about it. How did you balance the time off with not feeling like you were falling behind at work when you came back?

LLance K.Regular3w ago

Wish I had this option when my kids were born. Working full time with newborns was brutal. Glad you got to experience that time with yours - it matters more than any promotion.

LLance K.Regular3w ago

This is great to hear. So many dads feel guilty taking paternity leave or worry about how it'll look. The fact that it was actually amazing probably says something important about priorities.