Promotion opportunity but it means traveling 3 weeks a month

1w ago·1 min read

Got offered a regional manager spot that's a huge step up for my career. It checks all the boxes for money and status. Problem is it requires traveling to 4 different locations every month and I already feel like I'm missing too much with the kids. My oldest starts middle school next year and I promised to be more present. Wife is supportive of whatever I choose but I can see the stress in her face. This shouldn't be this hard to decide but it is. Anyone take a step back career wise for family?

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VVincentRegular1w ago

Man, that's tough. I turned down a similar gig a few years back because I didn't want to miss my kids growing up. The money's nice but you can't get those years back. What does your gut tell you?

TTony M.New Dad1w ago

Three weeks a month is a lot of missed dinners, man. My daughter's gymnastics schedule alone keeps me grounded at home. Just make sure whatever you choose, you can actually be present for the important stuff.

DDerek M.New Dad1w ago

Yeah, this one's about priorities. Our Taco Tuesdays might sound silly but that's where my family connects. Ask yourself if climbing the ladder is worth trading your day-to-day time with the kids.