Side hustle ruining my free time

Jan 191 min read

OK so I started a dropshipping thing about 8 months ago thinking I'd make some extra cash. It's actually doing OK - maybe $1,200/month profit right now.

But guys... I'm spending 10+ hours a week on it on top of my regular job. My wife is rightfully pissed because my 'free time' that used to be spent with the family is now spent on my laptop managing inventory and customer service. My kids barely see me.

Is the extra money worth it? Probably not. Am I going to stop? Probably not because I'm stubborn lol. Anyone else dealing with this or have advice?

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Comments(5)

BBrent M.New DadJan 19

Drop shipping was supposed to be passive income right? That's what got me too. Ended up spending more time managing the business than I would have working an actual job. How many hours a week are you putting in now?

MMike R.RegularJan 20

What kind of margins are you actually getting? Even if you quit tomorrow at least you'd know whether you learned something or just wasted time and money.

DDave R.New DadJan 20

8 months in is right when most people quit according to every podcast I've listened to. The question is whether you believe in it enough to push through or if it's just another thing stealing from your family time.

DDerek M.New DadJan 20

Cut it loose dude. If it's eating your free time after 8 months and you're not seeing real money, that's the sign to shut it down. Your sanity is worth more than whatever profit you might make eventually.

MMasonNew DadJan 22

This is exactly why I never started a side hustle. I know myself and I'd just be glued to my phone checking orders instead of actually being present with my kids.