The 'being present at bedtime' myth

Ngl I see a lot of posts about making bedtime sacred and being fully present with your kids. Cool, that's nice. But like... sometimes I'm just tired? Sometimes I read the books on autopilot while thinking about work? Sometimes my kid is annoying and I want them to just go to sleep?

I think we do ourselves a disservice pretending every parenting moment has to be magical. Sometimes dad time is just... doing the thing. Anyway, anyone else feel like the instagram version of parenting is not actually realistic?