The stress of being the breadwinner never stops

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JoeNew Dad

1w ago1 min read

Got passed over for a promotion I really needed and now I'm spiraling about whether I'm providing enough for my family. I know it's just one job but when you're the main income it hits different. Anyone else deal with this mental load of feeling responsible for everything? Looking for perspective or maybe just validation that I'm not insane.

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MMark T.New Dad1w ago

I feel this in my soul. The weight of being the breadwinner is real and it's heavy. A missed promotion stings different when you feel like you're carrying the financial load. But you're still providing, that matters. Don't spiral too hard on this one.

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EEdRegular1w ago

That sucks and your feelings are valid but one promotion doesn't mean you're failing. You're still showing up every day and taking care of your family. That's the win.

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TTony M.New Dad1w ago

Sorry man, that's rough. But you know what? Your kids don't care about a promotion. They care that you're there. I know that doesn't pay the bills but don't let one opportunity define what kind of provider you are.

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