10 years ago I had zero responsibility, now look at me

1w ago1 min read

Just realized the other day that a decade ago I was pretty much just focused on myself. Slept till noon on weekends, spent money on stupid stuff, went on random road trips whenever I felt like it. Now I'm up at 6am no matter what, thinking about college funds and whether my kids are getting enough vegetables. I don't regret it but man sometimes I miss just being able to think about myself for more than 5 minutes straight. The funny thing is my 3 year old will probably go through the same thing someday and I'll be the guy telling him to enjoy being selfish while he can.

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JJosh M.Regular6d ago

Same. Ten years ago I was sleeping till noon on Saturdays and now I'm up at 5:30 AM making lunches. Wild how much changes when you become a dad.

TTylerNew Dad1w ago

The responsibility hits different but honestly I wouldn't go back to that version of myself. Sure, I'm tired, but I'm also part of something that actually matters now.

MMichaelRegular1w ago

Decade for me too and the transformation is surreal. I was a pretty selfish guy before and fatherhood basically rewired my priorities. Not gonna lie, some mornings I miss the freedom, but the trade-off has been worth it.

KKyleRegular1w ago

Wait until you realize you're the adult everyone depends on now. That's when it really hits you. Welcome to the club.