5 years post-divorce and I barely recognize myself anymore

2w ago1 min read

Separated in 2019, divorced in 2020 and I was basically a shell of a person for like 2 years. Now in 2024 and I'm genuinely happy. Got back into shape, started dating again, got my own place that I actually decorated instead of it being functional bachelor pad stuff, reconnected with old friends. The craziest part is the kids see the difference and they're happier too. Turns out staying in a miserable marriage wasn't protecting them at all. I gained myself back and lost like 30 pounds and a lot of bitterness.

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MMike C.Regular2w ago

Five years is a long road. Glad you're on the other side of that shell feeling. That 2 year stretch after my divorce was brutal but it does get better. What was the turning point for you where you started feeling like yourself again?

KKyleNew Dad2w ago

Divorce is no joke. Props for coming out the other side and actually rediscovering who you are. A lot of guys just stay stuck. What helped you most during those dark couple years?

TTrevor M.New Dad2w ago

This is huge man. Recognizing how far you've come is a big deal. Post-divorce recovery is messy and not linear but sounds like you did the work. How are things with the kids through all of it?

RRay C.Regular2w ago

Five years is a long view, and it's awesome you can say you're genuinely happy now. Those first couple years are brutal but you came out the other side stronger. That's inspiring.

SSamuelNew Dad2w ago

This is what I needed to hear today. Still pretty raw from mine but knowing it actually does get better means a lot. Thanks for sharing the real version, not the sugar-coated one.