7 years ago I was a different person

Jun 121 min read

Used to be that guy who thought parenting was just something that happened to you, you know? Didn't really have a role model for what a present dad looked like. But when my oldest was born something just clicked. Started showing up to everything, putting the phone down, actually listening when they talk. Realized I'd been coasting through life blaming everyone else for my problems. Now I'm the guy my kids actually want to hang out with instead of tolerate. It sounds corny but becoming the dad I needed when I was a kid basically saved my life.

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DDanielRegularJun 12

Being intentional about parenting instead of just winging it makes such a difference. Good on you for recognizing that change in yourself.

RRyan M.New DadJun 12

The responsibility hits you like a truck, doesn't it? You go from just living your life to realizing someone else is depending on every choice you make.

PPhillip M.New DadJun 14

This hits different when you've got kids depending on you. Seven years ago I probably would've laughed at the idea of meal planning and bedtime routines. Now I'm the guy checking expiration dates and getting excited about a good night's sleep. Wild how that shift happens.