Became a better person when I became a dad

1w ago1 min read

Not gonna lie, I was kind of a mess before my daughter was born. Did stupid stuff, spent money on dumb things, didn't care about anything really. Then she came along and something just clicked. Wanted to be someone she could look up to. Got my finances together, quit drinking as much, actually started thinking about the future instead of just living for the weekend. It's cheesy to say but becoming a dad saved my life honestly. My daughter is 4 now and I can't imagine going back to that old version of myself.

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CChris M.New Dad1w ago

This is the real transformation right here. Being a dad changed how I think about the future and consequences. It's not just about me anymore, you know?

TTony M.New Dad1w ago

Having a kid gave me actual purpose. Before I was just kind of existing. Now I'm trying to be someone worth being a role model for. It's the best motivation.

DDan M.Regular1w ago

Your daughter sounds like the best thing that ever happened to you. Becoming a better person for your kids is honestly one of the greatest dad jokes life can play on you, and I mean that in the best way.

JJasonNew Dad1w ago

Respect for owning that. My 6yo calls me out constantly when I'm not being the dad I want to be, keeps me honest. Sounds like your daughter's doing the same thing for you.

MMatt J.Regular1w ago

That's a real transformation, man. I was similar before my kids came along. Parenthood just hits different and makes you want to be better, you know?

GGarrettRegular1w ago

Same experience here. My daughter made me want to be better. Cut out a lot of garbage and actually started thinking about the future. Parenting does that to you.