Became a dad and finally got my priorities straight
When my son was born I was working 70 hour weeks at a job I hated trying to climb a ladder nobody wanted to climb. After he was born something just clicked. I realized I was missing everything. We made the tough call - took a job making less money but reasonable hours. Best decision we made. I actually know my kid now instead of just seeing him asleep when I get home. Relationship with my wife improved too. Turns out constantly stressed and exhausted wasn't the vibe. Should've done this sooner.
That's the real deal right there. I still work hard but the tournament schedule and family time come first now. Everything else is just noise.