Came out as gay at 52

5d ago1 min read

Spent 25 years in a marriage pretending to be someone I wasn't. Divorced 3 years ago and finally living authentically. My kids took it hard at first, especially my oldest son, but we're working through it. Do I regret the years? Sometimes. But I'm actually happy now for the first time in my life. I'm dating someone who makes me laugh. I don't wake up with that crushing anxiety anymore. My therapist says I'm grieving the life I thought I should have while celebrating the one I actually get to live now. That's about right.

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TTom M.Regular3d ago

That took real courage. 25 years is a long time to live a lie and then to actually make the break and be yourself at 52? That's inspiring man. How are your kids handling the whole situation?

MMichaelRegular4d ago

Coming out that late in life takes incredible strength. I can't imagine carrying that weight for so long. How does it feel now that you're just being yourself?

DDerek M.Regular4d ago

Good for you. Being authentic matters more than any traditional path ever could. The fact that you're finally living your truth is what counts. Hope the kids came around.