Fitness transformation but not in the way I expected

Before kids I was getting up at 5am hitting the gym regularly, always trying to PR. Now my workout is chasing my toddler around the backyard for an hour and then carrying his 35lb self up two flights of stairs five times a day. Don't get me wrong I'm probably in better functional shape but my six pack is definitely gone. Those gym gains feel like a past life. Anyone else basically give up on looking a certain way and just accepted "dad bod" as part of the deal?