Five years sober and I finally feel like a real dad

2d ago1 min read

Used to be the guy at every party, always had a beer in my hand, couldn't say no to anything. I missed my oldest's first day of kindergarten because I was too hungover. My wife gave me an ultimatum and I finally got it together. Been sober 5 years now and I'm coaching my son's soccer team, going to his school plays, remembering conversations. My kids actually want to hang out with me now instead of avoiding me. I'm not gonna lie and say it was easy or that I don't miss parts of that lifestyle, but this version of me is infinitely better. If you're thinking about making a change, it's worth it.

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CChris R.New Dad2d ago

This is awesome to read. Being present for the everyday stuff is worth more than anything else. My kids remember the random Tuesday afternoon we hung out way more than fancy trips.

MMichael H.New Dad2d ago

That's huge man, seriously congrats on five years. Missing that first day had to be rough but you're showing up now and that's what matters. Your kids are lucky to have a dad who turned it around like this.