From career obsessed guy to actually knowing my kids

Had a health scare last year that made me rethink everything. I was the guy grinding 60 hours a week, missing recitals and soccer games, always stressed about work. Ended up having a panic attack at the office and that was my wake up call. Cut back my hours, started saying no to stuff that didn't matter. My relationship with my kids is completely different now. I'm actually present. I miss the ego boost from being the big shot at work but I don't miss the anxiety and the feeling like I was sleepwalking through my kids' lives.